it depends on two things:
the gal's mind and the guy's ..... although social 'prejustice' may come into the pics also
but what the heck............. just do it (exploring the relationship) if both see things the same way, after all its their relationship, not all the bystanders, not even their relatives/friends'
Always wise words from Uncle Foo, with Tianmo Da Ge at 58 and Uncle Foo around, we can really learn alot from their wealth of sexperience and experience respectively....lol
she maybe a high flyer, but that doesnt mean she is better than you in all aspects of life. She can be just exam-smart and did well in schools. but if you talk to her about other things, she will be like "huh?". I tell you, alot of ppl out there are like that.
Some "high flyer" ppl dont even know how to see NSEW, or read a map or plan a holiday initernay or dont know who is the US President, or their driving skills sucks big time....
There are always some things that you are better than her or know more than her. So use that to your advantage.
And if she's so high flyer, she would had probably seen alot of those "high flyer" ASKs, and she may get sick of them. So you come in with different perspective, a different Male Alpha from another walk of life. She may find you very refreshing.
Be a Man lah!
If you can't even tackle a gal, how to achieve other bigger things in life????!
Edited by Donut, 10 August 2011 - 09:45 AM.
Yes why not?
she maybe a high flyer, but that doesnt mean she is better than you in all aspects of life. She can be just exam-smart and did well in schools. but if you talk to her about other things, she will be like "huh?". I tell you, alot of ppl out there are like that.
Some "high flyer" ppl dont even know how to see NSEW, or read a map or plan a holiday initernay or dont know who is the US President, or their driving skills sucks big time....
There are always some things that you are better than her or know more than her. So use that to your advantage.
And if she's so high flyer, she would had probably seen alot of those "high flyer" ASKs, and she may get sick of them. So you come in with different perspective, a different Male Alpha from another walk of life. She may find you very refreshing.
Be a Man lah!
If you can't even tackle a gal, how to achieve other bigger things in life????!
wah...actually you quite rite....last time I know this high flyer girl, same age as me, of cos when I was studying she already out at work, now country manager position, but damn fugging stupid one....don't shave her legs cos her mother say not good to shave, then when I was with her don't let me f, after I dumped her ask me to f her...ok after this relevation I better stay incognito...lol
If a man cannot even hook a gal, he's a FAILURE in Life, no matter how much he is earning
Able or unable to hook a gal, it shows alot about a guy, whether he has some serious interpersonal skills problem and personality disturbances.
You can come say hello and shake hands on Friday night..
We will be there till pretty late..
Gal, I will try my best. I got other commitments.
it depends on two things:
the gal's mind and the guy's ..... although social 'prejustice' may come into the pics also
but what the heck............. just do it (exploring the relationship) if both see things the same way, after all its their relationship, not all the bystanders, not even their relatives/friends'
Yes. I agree.
Good Morning! I am just glad I have woken up and is alive. Although work suckz, I am still happy I have a job and not living off my parents!
Sibey good life....now then wake up.....
My personal belief in Life:
If a man cannot even hook a gal, he's a FAILURE in Life, no matter how much he is earning
Able or unable to hook a gal, it shows alot about a guy, whether he has some serious interpersonal skills problem and personality disturbances.
Come on, life is not all about hooking up gals...then you saying dalai lama is a failure meh....different people got different priorities in life mah....
Sibey good life....now then wake up.....
No la, I woke up at 1.18am to pee, then 7 am to go to work....need to give briefing to my staff, some admin work then come in at 930am to tcss....lol...why you need to wake up at 6am...you teacher?
Come on, life is not all about hooking up gals...then you saying dalai lama is a failure meh....different people got different priorities in life mah....
Sorry i forgot to add in a disclaimer: I have to exclude those who are answering to a higher calling from heavens.
Other than this group of fellas, other normal guys are included in my personal belief
Come on, if a guy aged 35-40 years old, come to me and he's still single, cannot find galfriend, have very few female friends. I will asking myself "What is F wrong with you?! Are you autistic or what?"
Career is no excuse...... Everyone also has a career to worry about. So if the guy next to you can have a galfriend and getting married, why can't you?
Sorry i forgot to add in a disclaimer: I have to exclude those who are answering to a higher calling from heavens.
Other than this group of fellas, other normal guys are included in my personal belief
Come on, if a guy aged 35-40 years old, come to me and he's still single, cannot find galfriend, have very few female friends. I will asking myself "What is F wrong with you?! Are you autistic or what?"
Career is no excuse...... Everyone also has a career to worry about. So if the guy next to you can have a galfriend and getting married, why can't you?
wah, very sensitive ley, especially since I just broke up and not gf now, yeah there is something f--king wrong with me...
this is what I think, more ladies now are better educated, independent, have their own career, money, etc...there is a group of men in the age group you mentioned, thank god I am not, who perhaps are just O level grads, Poly grads or maybe blue collared workers with lesser earning power, SG gals hum these group of men and it is hard for them to find a partner which is why I see alot of them get together with vietnam, pinoy, prc gals who can accept men of lower calibre as they are just contented with a hdb roof over their heads and a simple life
Yes why not?
she maybe a high flyer, but that doesnt mean she is better than you in all aspects of life. She can be just exam-smart and did well in schools. but if you talk to her about other things, she will be like "huh?". I tell you, alot of ppl out there are like that.
Some "high flyer" ppl dont even know how to see NSEW, or read a map or plan a holiday initernay or dont know who is the US President, or their driving skills sucks big time....
There are always some things that you are better than her or know more than her. So use that to your advantage.
And if she's so high flyer, she would had probably seen alot of those "high flyer" ASKs, and she may get sick of them. So you come in with different perspective, a different Male Alpha from another walk of life. She may find you very refreshing.
Be a Man lah!
If you can't even tackle a gal, how to achieve other bigger things in life????!
i have a fren who's got double honours and she's proud of it. (so are we)
but she couldn't operate a simple dvd player in real life. she felt stupid. (so do we)
i have a fren who's got double honours and she's proud of it. (so are we)
but she couldn't operate a simple dvd player in real life. she felt stupid. (so do we)
Oh yeah... lots of them out there.
The problem lies with our SG education system. It only teaches ppl to be exam smart. Come to other things, many of them feel damm stupid.....
Try asking a "high flyer" person where does the sun rises from and sets every day..........
i have a fren who's got double honours and she's proud of it. (so are we)
but she couldn't operate a simple dvd player in real life. she felt stupid. (so do we)
does she know how to operate a gear stick?
does she know how to operate a gear stick?
that one, you are the expert to teach, right?
that one, you are the expert to teach, right?
Depends whether she wants a fast changing short shifter or a longer slower and steady one....lol
No la, I woke up at 1.18am to pee, then 7 am to go to work....need to give briefing to my staff, some admin work then come in at 930am to tcss....lol...why you need to wake up at 6am...you teacher?
No. I work in a corporate department but my office not in town.
Oh yeah... lots of them out there.
The problem lies with our SG education system. It only teaches ppl to be exam smart. Come to other things, many of them feel damm stupid.....
Try asking a "high flyer" person where does the sun rises from and sets every day..........
I concur. I got a shock when I "switch" out of our local education system after 10 over years and had my university education abroad.
There is a difference in my personal opinion.
No. I work in a corporate department but my office not in town.
oic, so it's becos of the distance you have to wake up so early? yeah if i work in town I have to wake up at 630am too...
Thursday can? Usually Friday quite crazy for me.
actually cannot.............but now can liao................
actually cannot.............but now can liao................
Mine initially can but looks like now cannot.
Just got a call this morning for an urgent meeting. Back to back. Runs from morning till late afternoon.
Paiseh.
You can come say hello and shake hands on Friday night..
We will be there till pretty late..
he work in far west and stay in far north.............you ask him to go to the far east to shake hand and say halo???......................
Mine initially can but looks like now cannot.
Just got a call this morning for an urgent meeting. Back to back. Runs from morning till late afternoon.
Paiseh.
than how???....................
than how???....................
Next week can?
Next week can?
next week ........thai pub maboh ai mai???.............if not afternoon lunch or kopi .................you let me know..........
Edited by Tianmo, 10 August 2011 - 11:21 AM.
den nex time see her she go out with rich old man... sho is not my fault... she dunch wan mi
Edited by Mockngbrd, 10 August 2011 - 11:27 AM.
Depends whether she wants a fast changing short shifter or a longer slower and steady one....lol
Should teach her both so that she can practice her shifting speed on your stick..... Lol
Should teach her both so that she can practice her shifting speed on your stick..... Lol
lol...ok must teach her how to make it long and short....
pm me her msn...hahaha last time i wanto date lich ger... but she dun wanto go out date with me... i moody
den nex time see her she go out with rich old man... sho is not my fault... she dunch wan mi
dun worry la, she can be with rich old man but can be screwing with you behind his back....and she wun enjoy sex with him...this is from someone's mouth
next week ........thai pub maboh ai mai???.............if not afternoon lunch or kopi .................you let me know..........
I never been to Thai pub leh. You show me can?
I never been to Thai pub leh. You show me can?
I also never been to one................we go and find out together lah..............
dun wan, i value my chastitydun worry la, she can be with rich old man but can be screwing with you behind his back....and she wun enjoy sex with him...this is from someone's mouth
dun wan, i value my chastity
oh ya, i forgot you ish young boy....hahahah
dun wan, i value my chastity
Then wear a chastity belt.
On a side note, you were mentioned in MO's second address thread.
Yes why not?
she maybe a high flyer, but that doesnt mean she is better than you in all aspects of life. She can be just exam-smart and did well in schools. but if you talk to her about other things, she will be like "huh?". I tell you, alot of ppl out there are like that.
Some "high flyer" ppl dont even know how to see NSEW, or read a map or plan a holiday initernay or dont know who is the US President, or their driving skills sucks big time....
There are always some things that you are better than her or know more than her. So use that to your advantage.
And if she's so high flyer, she would had probably seen alot of those "high flyer" ASKs, and she may get sick of them. So you come in with different perspective, a different Male Alpha from another walk of life. She may find you very refreshing.
Be a Man lah!
If you can't even tackle a gal, how to achieve other bigger things in life????!
This subject is getting interesting man.... with many differing POV from different forummers from a diverse walk of life (Happy National Day !! OK moving on....)
Many things cannot be determined just by looking at the surface level. Yes, reading a map may put the high-flying girl in question to shame.. but really in our society, does reading a map produce any dough to enable a man's ego to be on par with, say a book smart brain which generates money and pay for his bread and butter? And ooh, travel Itin - she can pay Chan brothers to do it for her...yes??
I think it has to be an apple to apple comparision in terms of finding things that a guy can do better and using that to his advantage. This is where circumstances come into play too...
Just a hypothetical illustration:
In a war torn country, a man who is able to read a map, or shoot well will look like a hero in front of the female population, whether she's a bimbo or a smart lass... because in a war torn environment, human's needs are at the physiological level of Maslow's hierarchy of needs...
But in a peaceful (and extremely materialistic) nation like Singapre, do we ever need to shoot?? (maybe in army.. and get what?!?! $200 and a marksman's badge?? ) and read a map?? Well, I can just pay an Ahmad to do so yeah?? So where's the superiority in reading a map?? Here in Singapore, many well heeded lady seek to self actualise, being well educated, well travelled and well read.. They are at the top tier of the hierarchy of needs... I doubt they care if their partners could read a map?? - Perhaps that may amuse them for that one micro minute.. then its back to reality... a Himbo who knows nothing but map reading?? pass.....
OK just an extreme example.....
In medieval times, strength alone is seen as powerful..... but in this modern material world, what can strength alone yield?? The gas delivery man?? who runs up and down stairs??
Not sure if any bros and sis here came across this article which was published some time back... The article is called "Male Pride and Female Prejudice" written by John Tierney... It gives a good insight into this topic which Jill posted... very good read...
Yes I really do admire the courage of some guys who can go after girls who are way beyond their league. Tackling a girl is not about social equals... but sadly, keeping that relationship strong takes many factors above guts alone... and when the lady eventually sees no future in a guy who is below their expectations, he must get ready to crash and burn....
Of course, that applies to partners with a huge disparity in social standings la...
now i scared liao.... you always reply this wayAlways wise words from Uncle Foo, with Tianmo Da Ge at 58 and Uncle Foo around, we can really learn alot from their wealth of sexperience and experience respectively....lol
mine posts are like standard text book replies lah.... not half as original as yours
my thingkings are very old school.... not sure nowadays gen Y, Z, ZZZ can understand or not?Yes. I agree.
go where shake hand bo jio?he work in far west and stay in far north.............you ask him to go to the far east to shake hand and say halo???......................
This subject is getting interesting man.... with many differing POV from different forummers from a diverse walk of life (Happy National Day !! OK moving on....)
Many things cannot be determined just by looking at the surface level. Yes, reading a map may put the high-flying girl in question to shame.. but really in our society, does reading a map produce any dough to enable a man's ego to be on par with, say a book smart brain which generates money and pay for his bread and butter? And ooh, travel Itin - she can pay Chan brothers to do it for her...yes??
I think it has to be an apple to apple comparision in terms of finding things that a guy can do better and using that to his advantage. This is where circumstances come into play too...
Just a hypothetical illustration:
In a war torn country, a man who is able to read a map, or shoot well will look like a hero in front of the female population, whether she's a bimbo or a smart lass... because in a war torn environment, human's needs are at the physiological level of Maslow's hierarchy of needs...
But in a peaceful (and extremely materialistic) nation like Singapre, do we ever need to shoot?? (maybe in army.. and get what?!?! $200 and a marksman's badge?? ) and read a map?? Well, I can just pay an Ahmad to do so yeah?? So where's the superiority in reading a map?? Here in Singapore, many well heeded lady seek to self actualise, being well educated, well travelled and well read.. They are at the top tier of the hierarchy of needs... I doubt they care if their partners could read a map?? - Perhaps that may amuse them for that one micro minute.. then its back to reality... a Himbo who knows nothing but map reading?? pass.....
OK just an extreme example.....
In medieval times, strength alone is seen as powerful..... but in this modern material world, what can strength alone yield?? The gas delivery man?? who runs up and down stairs??
Not sure if any bros and sis here came across this article which was published some time back... The article is called "Male Pride and Female Prejudice" written by John Tierney... It gives a good insight into this topic which Jill posted... very good read...
Yes I really do admire the courage of some guys who can go after girls who are way beyond their league. Tackling a girl is not about social equals... but sadly, keeping that relationship strong takes many factors above guts alone... and when the lady eventually sees no future in a guy who is below their expectations, he must get ready to crash and burn....
Of course, that applies to partners with a huge disparity in social standings la...
not sure if someone has already said this:
some say love is blind, other say when all things fail, love survives... different situations / persons different twists
between man n woman, a lack of common interests / backgrounds etc can ruin or at least strain a relationship, so can the lack of money and security.
at the same time, when the above are in abundance, but love goes AWOL..... big trouble also
then how much love is enough in a relationship? ......... since there is no one benchmark to suit every couple, they have to find out themselves
some couples put 9 tea spoons of LOVE + 1 tea spoon of the rest as the benchmark, some the other way round.... and even the 90 /10 may shift from time to time in a relationship
end of the day, i dont have an answer
Edited by KARTer, 10 August 2011 - 02:22 PM.
its not about reading map or plan holiday as per se...
my point to TS is there will always be things that he is better than that high flyer gal. So encourage him to go for the date lor.....
no need to scare. the high flyer gal will not eat him up one. (there is a kind of "eating" from a gal that we men won't mind actually....
)go where shake hand bo jio?
ah bee.............I not organizer leh.............if I organize sure jio you.............maybe next week I got one..........I sms you ok.............
but i refer you to organizer ok.................she very nice one...........sure jio you go also.............
not sure if someone has already said this:
some say love is blind, other say when all things fail, love survives... different situations / persons different twists
between man n woman, a lack of common interests / backgrounds etc can ruin or at least strain a relationship, so can the lack of money and security.
at the same time, when the above are in abundance, but love goes AWOL..... big trouble also
then how much love is enough in a relationship? ......... since there is no one benchmark to suit every couple, they have to find out themselves
some couples put 9 tea spoons of LOVE + 1 tea spoon of the rest as the benchmark, some the other way round.... and even the 90 /10 may shift from time to time in a relationship
end of the day, i dont have an answer
i thought you are a man of wisdom, from many years of sexperience?
not sure if someone has already said this:
some say love is blind, other say when all things fail, love survives... different situations / persons different twists
between man n woman, a lack of common interests / backgrounds etc can ruin or at least strain a relationship, so can the lack of money and security.
at the same time, when the above are in abundance, but love goes AWOL..... big trouble also
then how much love is enough in a relationship? ......... since there is no one benchmark to suit every couple, they have to find out themselves
some couples put 9 tea spoons of LOVE + 1 tea spoon of the rest as the benchmark, some the other way round.... and even the 90 /10 may shift from time to time in a relationship
end of the day, i dont have an answer
Essentially, it depends on what a person wants in life. Differing individuals have diverse whims and fancies.
Being together with someone is a challenge ha.. really, lots of give and take and compromises. I do miss my single days....
But rule of thumb for most relationships, social status and educational level should be almost on par... Eg, don't expect a PMEB to wed a Viet wife (not the educated kind, the kind that can be arranged with money)... what would they talk about in the long run?? Which Pho restaurant is the most awesome ? or When is the next Joo Chiat Raid....
Ooh... then you will get someone rushing up and say... "But i'm a PMEB what.. and I "bought" a Viet bride... you have a problem??? " - Just to clarify, I have no problem with that...
But then again, there are different tiers to PMEBS..... and the list go on....
Cutting to the chase.... different folk different stroke....
let me check if my helmet is secured and tight or not first...wah, very sensitive ley, especially since I just broke up and not gf now, yeah there is something f--king wrong with me...
this is what I think, more ladies now are better educated, independent, have their own career, money, etc...there is a group of men in the age group you mentioned, thank god I am not, who perhaps are just O level grads, Poly grads or maybe blue collared workers with lesser earning power, SG gals hum these group of men and it is hard for them to find a partner which is why I see alot of them get together with vietnam, pinoy, prc gals who can accept men of lower calibre as they are just contented with a hdb roof over their heads and a simple life
lots of sgp gals have problems... they are very choosy but forget to look at mirror themselves...
ok bro.. but i shy leh, will the organizer eat me up and spit my bones out?ah bee.............I not organizer leh.............if I organize sure jio you.............maybe next week I got one..........I sms you ok.............
but i refer you to organizer ok.................she very nice one...........sure jio you go also.............
no la.
its not about reading map or plan holiday as per se...
my point to TS is there will always be things that he is better than that high flyer gal. So encourage him to go for the date lor.....
no need to scare. the high flyer gal will not eat him up one. (there is a kind of "eating" from a gal that we men won't mind actually....
High flying girls are very proactive these days heh... esp the older ones... and they work in groups...wahaha...
Having said that, they are attractive ones...
not the desperate Obasans hor... 
but wisdom left me many years ago liao.... where to find it now?i thought you are a man of wisdom, from many years of sexperience?
ok bro.. but i shy leh, will the organizer eat me up and spit my bones out?
alamak..................i also cannot answer leh.............because I also 1st time with them....................no need shy..............I also shy............if you go we stay together lor...........
next week one I can tell you...............because those ppl all i know de..........nobody eat human!!!...............
good morning Eric..... since when you have migrated from HK to SGP??Good Morning! I am just glad I have woken up and is alive. Although work suckz, I am still happy I have a job and not living off my parents!
(cant help but taking you as Eric since your new avatar)
Ok ok see if the organizer got send me invite or not loalamak..................i also cannot answer leh.............because I also 1st time with them....................no need shy..............I also shy............if you go we stay together lor...........
next week one I can tell you...............because those ppl all i know de..........nobody eat human!!!...............
Ok ok see if the organizer got send me invite or not lo
She got meetings now, she will come in later to invite you...
Yes, always wear helmet, safety first, by the way I meant Tianmo is sexperienced and you are experienced....think donut got it the other way other...hahalet me check if my helmet is secured and tight or not first...
lots of sgp gals have problems... they are very choosy but forget to look at mirror themselves...
Ok ok see if the organizer got send me invite or not lo
you jaga your PM box lor...............
She got meetings now, she will come in later to invite you...
hmmm..................how come you so sure huh???.............
High flying girls are very proactive these days heh... esp the older ones... and they work in groups...wahaha...
Having said that, they are attractive ones...
Well you know what they say, hunt in packs! and devour the prey!
hmmm..................how come you so sure huh???.............
Cos last night I dreamt of her....lol......
She got meetings now, she will come in later to invite you...
you jaga your PM box lor...............
LOL I dunno who the organizer is leh??
ok bro.. but i shy leh, will the organizer eat me up and spit my bones out?
Hello Beehive3783!! TM da ge has just smsed me. Sorry, flooded with meetings today..so response time is real slow. Please come and join us this Friday ok? Would really love to catch up with fellow forummers
Cos last night I dreamt of her....lol......
she beginning to sound like you.............making me very worry...............
LOL I dunno who the organizer is leh??
lai liao lor..............
Hi hi.. I would love to play catching with fellow forummersHello Beehive3783!! TM da ge has just smsed me. Sorry, flooded with meetings today..so response time is real slow. Please come and join us this Friday ok? Would really love to catch up with fellow forummers
Please PM me the details, will let you know if I can join
Hmm ok ok.. the organizer seems like a power woman leh.. got so many meetings.. all playing catching?lai liao lor..............
Hi hi.. I would love to play catching with fellow forummers
Please PM me the details, will let you know if I can join
boh jio say boh jio................ppl jio liao you you hang up sell..............
Hmm ok ok.. the organizer seems like a power woman leh.. got so many meetings.. all playing catching?
ask you go lim kopi.........not match make................why you care power or no power woman..................
I dunno where, when, what time.. how to confirm attendance?boh jio say boh jio................ppl jio liao you you hang up sell..............
Power woman very sexy mah.. but not wife material.. unless she can put that all down for familyask you go lim kopi.........not match make................why you care power or no power woman..................
I dunno where, when, what time.. how to confirm attendance?
No problem, I will PM you now.
Please join..come and shake hands also nice..if your schedule is tight...
I dunno where, when, what time.. how to confirm attendance?
think she will PM you later...............btw is coming friday night...........
Power woman very sexy mah.. but not wife material.. unless she can put that all down for family
oi...........you just put down payment for flat and here talking abt sexy power women and wife???................
Hmm ok ok.. the organizer seems like a power woman leh.. got so many meetings.. all playing catching?
Haha..no power here! Who doesn't have meetings??
LOL............... sex makes life more interesting, but can be exhausting also.. not complaining either wayYes, always wear helmet, safety first, by the way I meant Tianmo is sexperienced and you are experienced....think donut got it the other way other...haha
Ok notedthink she will PM you later...............btw is coming friday night...........
alamak..................i also cannot answer leh.............because I also 1st time with them....................no need shy..............I also shy............if you go we stay together lor...........
next week one I can tell you...............because those ppl all i know de..........nobody eat human!!!...............
TM da ge..I leave new intakes for you to manage ok? Help me can? For today only...Please....I need to wait till 7pm before I can properly look at what's going on in here..
What has that got to do with downpayment for a pigeon hole? Don't tell me you're not interested in women anymore even after marriage?oi...........you just put down payment for flat and here talking abt sexy power women and wife???................
No problem. I think I should be able to make it. I usually go to Starbucks thoughNo problem, I will PM you now.
Please join..come and shake hands also nice..if your schedule is tight...
Erm, I don't have meetings usuallyHaha..no power here! Who doesn't have meetings??
Ok noted
she beginning to sound like you.............making me very worry...............
Huh..Did you mean me da ge?
No problem. I think I should be able to make it. I usually go to Starbucks though
Sure, we can go Starbucks also..Just next door! I love their hot chocolate to the max!
TM da ge..I leave new intakes for you to manage ok? Help me can? For today only...Please....I need to wait till 7pm before I can properly look at what's going on in here..
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Edited by Tianmo, 10 August 2011 - 03:42 PM.
I'm not particular so no worries, any place will do.Sure, we can go Starbucks also..Just next door! I love their hot chocolate to the max!
Although I would love to have Starbucks
What has that got to do with downpayment for a pigeon hole? Don't tell me you're not interested in women anymore even after marriage?
than you can go to ranger thread and standby liao...............
Huh..Did you mean me da ge?
Too late! TM da ge!!
Nah, treat u coffee wor
Edited by Jillietta, 10 August 2011 - 03:52 PM.
Got new intake ah?than you can go to ranger thread and standby liao...............
Too late! TM da ge!!
Nah, treat u coffee wor
Got new intake ah?
that one I am GM.............can take anytime.............no intake date one................but you must go report there 1st..............
Still must report ah? Got medical checkup or not?that one I am GM.............can take anytime.............no intake date one................but you must go report there 1st..............
No guts no glory, at the most get a bruised ego. If successful the shiok factor will be overpowering
Still must report ah? Got medical checkup or not?
No medical required.............no report how the others know you...............
Ok report in liao..No medical required.............no report how the others know you...............
Why you never pm me yr Hp, I jealous leow!!!Hello Beehive3783!! TM da ge has just smsed me. Sorry, flooded with meetings today..so response time is real slow. Please come and join us this Friday ok? Would really love to catch up with fellow forummers
Ok report in liao..
check it out!!!............
Haha, too bad I got other priorities in life and c--t keep up with you and always cuming, can only sit one side and envy hahaLOL............... sex makes life more interesting, but can be exhausting also.. not complaining either way
A lot of people sound like me ley for example that chemmie guyshe beginning to sound like you.............making me very worry...............
Why you never pm me yr Hp, I jealous leow!!!
But you are not keen to join, why do I need to pm my mobile leh?
so bascially if each of them enjoyed, each other companionship... and see things in common, espicelly in life terms goal.
why not? what is the thing about been more superior towards each other, as we are talking about love!
actually to me, loving some 1 is not that shallow, and superficial, unless you are bank crupt, and dont want to pull her down, let me make a scnerio out of it. guy earning decent 8k, and lady earning 20k, high flyer.
so bascially if each of them enjoyed, each other companionship... and see things in common, espicelly in life terms goal.
why not? what is the thing about been more superior towards each other, as we are talking about love!
Brudder, I would love to believe in true love too but in our realistic world, it rarely exist beyond say 3 years.... In my line, I see so many human aspects from people from all walks of life...
Lady A who earns 20K may love Guy B during the initial stage of the relationship - which may last for 3 years or less.. that's probably the fact finding stage... Then Lady A begins to aspire for things... she does a mental calculation and laments that because of their income disparity, she is X years away from getting that dream penthouse The Sail... she begins to think.... "How nice if Guy B earns 30K per month... or at least.. on par with me..."
She keeps quiet, she loves him afterall.... Life is not a bed of roses though... couples are bound to quarrel... So in the next lover's tiff they have, A unintentionally blurts out... ".... what do you mean by I don't love you...if don't love you, I would have left long ago to be with Guy C who is a doctor and I'll be sipping Moet from my champagne flute at the Sail right now... blah blah blue...."
Guy B keeps quiet, chest fallen... or he may choose to rebutt... "I didn't realise you were so materialistic ....blah blah blah..."
Now... the intensions were harmless... but the seed of evil is planted....
Guys, being guys, no matter how much we deny it, has a pride... Now, there's a difference between pride and ego... pride is what makes a man, ego is what makes the man arrogant...So the guy will begin to feel that Lady A is looking down on him (though she is not, in reality) and begin not to confide in her (career options, money matters, etc etc...) Each time she talks about the Sail subsequently, Guy A feels guilty, that he's unable to provide to his wife.. how a "real man" should....
Its this sense of guilt, bashed pride and perceived worthlessness that draws the guy into a shell... he begins to seek solace in gals who are his social and financial par... he finds confidence and manliness in her that Lady A could never replicate nor provide because she is seen as a superior...
That's also why men becomes insecure sometimes... even so if the high flying Lady A is both capable and attractive looking...
Well.. yes, my view is superficial, but we can't deny brudder, that our society is superficial....
Love is like a career path, simplified..a job.. at the point of convergence, it works well for both parties (The employer and employee -> sic: the guy and the gal)... then both live a life as a union... along the way.. its either things develop in the same direction, or directions differ.... and the financial portion plays a part in making life's crucial decisions....
Now, when a job doesn't work out anymore, or when there're better oppourtunities, what do we do?? Quit, period... unless there are intangibles like I love my colleagues ( residual Love in the relationship), my workplace is close to home (the kids...) and I love my company's brand name (I wanna look good in front of her parents and mine)...
How many relationships thrive on love alone these days?? Its a mixture or responsibilities, commitments and sacrifices.
But you're right !! True love still exists amidst my belief that it is a fairy tale or an urban legend... but out of 10 couples you find, perhaps 1 would not mind the financial disparity.... in the long run I meant... not in the fact finding stage....
Of course, these are extreme examples....
Again, circumstances come into play... If Lady A earns 20K monthly, Guy B earns 8K monthly but Lady A belongs to a heartland family while Guy B have rich parents...see how the whole equation changes... Let's face it, life isn't fair....
And many a times, you see many people bashing ASKs because they secretly wishes to be one?? perhaps?? haha....
all these... are... food for thoughts.... this thread is getting interesting....
Brudder, I would love to believe in true love too but in our realistic world, it rarely exist beyond say 3 years.... In my line, I see so many human aspects from people from all walks of life...
Lady A who earns 20K may love Guy B during the initial stage of the relationship - which may last for 3 years or less.. that's probably the fact finding stage... Then Lady A begins to aspire for things... she does a mental calculation and laments that because of their income disparity, she is X years away from getting that dream penthouse The Sail... she begins to think.... "How nice if Guy B earns 30K per month... or at least.. on par with me..."
She keeps quiet, she loves him afterall.... Life is not a bed of roses though... couples are bound to quarrel... So in the next lover's tiff they have, A unintentionally blurts out... ".... what do you mean by I don't love you...if don't love you, I would have left long ago to be with Guy C who is a doctor and I'll be sipping Moet from my champagne flute at the Sail right now... blah blah blue...."
Guy B keeps quiet, chest fallen... or he may choose to rebutt... "I didn't realise you were so materialistic ....blah blah blah..."
Now... the intensions were harmless... but the seed of evil is planted....
Guys, being guys, no matter how much we deny it, has a pride... Now, there's a difference between pride and ego... pride is what makes a man, ego is what makes the man arrogant...So the guy will begin to feel that Lady A is looking down on him (though she is not, in reality) and begin not to confide in her (career options, money matters, etc etc...) Each time she talks about the Sail subsequently, Guy A feels guilty, that he's unable to provide to his wife.. how a "real man" should....
Its this sense of guilt, bashed pride and perceived worthlessness that draws the guy into a shell... he begins to seek solace in gals who are his social and financial par... he finds confidence and manliness in her that Lady A could never replicate nor provide because she is seen as a superior...
That's also why men becomes insecure sometimes... even so if the high flying Lady A is both capable and attractive looking...
Well.. yes, my view is superficial, but we can't deny brudder, that our society is superficial....
Love is like a career path, simplified..a job.. at the point of convergence, it works well for both parties (The employer and employee -> sic: the guy and the gal)... then both live a life as a union... along the way.. its either things develop in the same direction, or directions differ.... and the financial portion plays a part in making life's crucial decisions....
Now, when a job doesn't work out anymore, or when there're better oppourtunities, what do we do?? Quit, period... unless there are intangibles like I love my colleagues ( residual Love in the relationship), my workplace is close to home (the kids...) and I love my company's brand name (I wanna look good in front of her parents and mine)...
How many relationships thrive on love alone these days?? Its a mixture or responsibilities, commitments and sacrifices.
But you're right !! True love still exists amidst my belief that it is a fairy tale or an urban legend... but out of 10 couples you find, perhaps 1 would not mind the financial disparity.... in the long run I meant... not in the fact finding stage....
Of course, these are extreme examples....
Again, circumstances come into play... If Lady A earns 20K monthly, Guy B earns 8K monthly but Lady A belongs to a heartland family while Guy B have rich parents...see how the whole equation changes... Let's face it, life isn't fair....
And many a times, you see many people bashing ASKs because they secretly wishes to be one?? perhaps?? haha....
all these... are... food for thoughts.... this thread is getting interesting....
hmmm.............maybe can make in a movie...........
But you are not keen to join, why do I need to pm my mobile leh?
Who say one, I said I will try to go if I can make it ley...you like not keen to invite me then i better don't join....
I go gay party with 20G leow..
Brudder, I would love to believe in true love too but in our realistic world, it rarely exist beyond say 3 years.... In my line, I see so many human aspects from people from all walks of life...
Lady A who earns 20K may love Guy B during the initial stage of the relationship - which may last for 3 years or less.. that's probably the fact finding stage... Then Lady A begins to aspire for things... she does a mental calculation and laments that because of their income disparity, she is X years away from getting that dream penthouse The Sail... she begins to think.... "How nice if Guy B earns 30K per month... or at least.. on par with me..."
She keeps quiet, she loves him afterall.... Life is not a bed of roses though... couples are bound to quarrel... So in the next lover's tiff they have, A unintentionally blurts out... ".... what do you mean by I don't love you...if don't love you, I would have left long ago to be with Guy C who is a doctor and I'll be sipping Moet from my champagne flute at the Sail right now... blah blah blue...."
Guy B keeps quiet, chest fallen... or he may choose to rebutt... "I didn't realise you were so materialistic ....blah blah blah..."
Now... the intensions were harmless... but the seed of evil is planted....
Guys, being guys, no matter how much we deny it, has a pride... Now, there's a difference between pride and ego... pride is what makes a man, ego is what makes the man arrogant...So the guy will begin to feel that Lady A is looking down on him (though she is not, in reality) and begin not to confide in her (career options, money matters, etc etc...) Each time she talks about the Sail subsequently, Guy A feels guilty, that he's unable to provide to his wife.. how a "real man" should....
Its this sense of guilt, bashed pride and perceived worthlessness that draws the guy into a shell... he begins to seek solace in gals who are his social and financial par... he finds confidence and manliness in her that Lady A could never replicate nor provide because she is seen as a superior...
That's also why men becomes insecure sometimes... even so if the high flying Lady A is both capable and attractive looking...
Well.. yes, my view is superficial, but we can't deny brudder, that our society is superficial....
Love is like a career path, simplified..a job.. at the point of convergence, it works well for both parties (The employer and employee -> sic: the guy and the gal)... then both live a life as a union... along the way.. its either things develop in the same direction, or directions differ.... and the financial portion plays a part in making life's crucial decisions....
Now, when a job doesn't work out anymore, or when there're better oppourtunities, what do we do?? Quit, period... unless there are intangibles like I love my colleagues ( residual Love in the relationship), my workplace is close to home (the kids...) and I love my company's brand name (I wanna look good in front of her parents and mine)...
How many relationships thrive on love alone these days?? Its a mixture or responsibilities, commitments and sacrifices.
But you're right !! True love still exists amidst my belief that it is a fairy tale or an urban legend... but out of 10 couples you find, perhaps 1 would not mind the financial disparity.... in the long run I meant... not in the fact finding stage....
Of course, these are extreme examples....
Again, circumstances come into play... If Lady A earns 20K monthly, Guy B earns 8K monthly but Lady A belongs to a heartland family while Guy B have rich parents...see how the whole equation changes... Let's face it, life isn't fair....
And many a times, you see many people bashing ASKs because they secretly wishes to be one?? perhaps?? haha....
all these... are... food for thoughts.... this thread is getting interesting....
I always enjoy your frank dispositions.....actually from my limited knowledge of rich ladies they do not mind a guy who is not as rich as them provided that he is willing to work hard at his career and is a responsible man....it's often the ladies who perhaps come from a more humble background who wants more because they are always fearful of being poor and not being able to enjoy the type of lifestyle the rich enjoys....
Brudder, I would love to believe in true love too but in our realistic world, it rarely exist beyond say 3 years.... In my line, I see so many human aspects from people from all walks of life...
Lady A who earns 20K may love Guy B during the initial stage of the relationship - which may last for 3 years or less.. that's probably the fact finding stage... Then Lady A begins to aspire for things... she does a mental calculation and laments that because of their income disparity, she is X years away from getting that dream penthouse The Sail... she begins to think.... "How nice if Guy B earns 30K per month... or at least.. on par with me..."
She keeps quiet, she loves him afterall.... Life is not a bed of roses though... couples are bound to quarrel... So in the next lover's tiff they have, A unintentionally blurts out... ".... what do you mean by I don't love you...if don't love you, I would have left long ago to be with Guy C who is a doctor and I'll be sipping Moet from my champagne flute at the Sail right now... blah blah blue...."
Guy B keeps quiet, chest fallen... or he may choose to rebutt... "I didn't realise you were so materialistic ....blah blah blah..."
Now... the intensions were harmless... but the seed of evil is planted....
Guys, being guys, no matter how much we deny it, has a pride... Now, there's a difference between pride and ego... pride is what makes a man, ego is what makes the man arrogant...So the guy will begin to feel that Lady A is looking down on him (though she is not, in reality) and begin not to confide in her (career options, money matters, etc etc...) Each time she talks about the Sail subsequently, Guy A feels guilty, that he's unable to provide to his wife.. how a "real man" should....
Its this sense of guilt, bashed pride and perceived worthlessness that draws the guy into a shell... he begins to seek solace in gals who are his social and financial par... he finds confidence and manliness in her that Lady A could never replicate nor provide because she is seen as a superior...
That's also why men becomes insecure sometimes... even so if the high flying Lady A is both capable and attractive looking...
Well.. yes, my view is superficial, but we can't deny brudder, that our society is superficial....
Love is like a career path, simplified..a job.. at the point of convergence, it works well for both parties (The employer and employee -> sic: the guy and the gal)... then both live a life as a union... along the way.. its either things develop in the same direction, or directions differ.... and the financial portion plays a part in making life's crucial decisions....
Now, when a job doesn't work out anymore, or when there're better oppourtunities, what do we do?? Quit, period... unless there are intangibles like I love my colleagues ( residual Love in the relationship), my workplace is close to home (the kids...) and I love my company's brand name (I wanna look good in front of her parents and mine)...
How many relationships thrive on love alone these days?? Its a mixture or responsibilities, commitments and sacrifices.
But you're right !! True love still exists amidst my belief that it is a fairy tale or an urban legend... but out of 10 couples you find, perhaps 1 would not mind the financial disparity.... in the long run I meant... not in the fact finding stage....
Of course, these are extreme examples....
Again, circumstances come into play... If Lady A earns 20K monthly, Guy B earns 8K monthly but Lady A belongs to a heartland family while Guy B have rich parents...see how the whole equation changes... Let's face it, life isn't fair....
And many a times, you see many people bashing ASKs because they secretly wishes to be one?? perhaps?? haha....
all these... are... food for thoughts.... this thread is getting interesting....
Hey bro, you are spot on in some of the above.
Anyway, my comments on this topic:
No guts no glory, at the most get a bruised ego. If successful the shiok factor will be overpowering
You mean overwhelming?
TM da ge..I leave new intakes for you to manage ok? Help me can? For today only...Please....I need to wait till 7pm before I can properly look at what's going on in here..
7 pm is a luxury. My meetings have no time limit sometimes.
I would very much want to believe that it is the essence of the common life goals/vision and teamwork, and not the players that matters. I mean to keep the players earning power and money out of the talk. You know the kind of "As long as we are in this together", so the issue of out-earned and impressive earning power of the woman disappear. Yes, short-term perhaps but years down the road? Feelings, behaviours and attitudes start to change. Nothing stays the same. It's human nature that we yearn for more and judge things differently. It is no more "As long as our hearts beat as one" ...it's more likely gonna be "Eh, can you manage your bank account and career better?!" Raw nerve is hit. More likely, "discussions" between the couple will evolve to heated arguments. When you have a far more superior half, it doesn't equate that the relationship or marriage is a sweeter deal. And worse, when self blame kicks in, insecurity and perhaps marriage depression follow. It's a real harsh world unfortunately. Gotta face it. So I'm on Icebrush79 more. Like he commented, I would very much want to believe in love fairies too..But, the pendulum always swings back to a balance.
boh jio say boh jio................ppl jio liao you you hang up sell..............
Should have one mega MU with people from this thread, AYDN thread, TR thread and TKSS thread.
Dunno what will happen.
7 pm is a luxury. My meetings have no time limit sometimes.
we know you are a busy man....................and the main reason for you to hang up sell..............
Should have one mega MU with people from this thread, AYDN thread, TR thread and TKSS thread.
Dunno what will happen.
you forgot PS3......liverpool......
alot of cross-over leh...........you belong where huh???..............
end up ppl like yuan will butterfly all over the place!!!..............
you forgot PS3......liverpool......
alot of cross-over leh...........you belong where huh???..............
end up ppl like yuan will butterfly all over the place!!!..............
PS3 is too fast for lao lang like me.
I go liverpool thread is either to hamtam people or kena hamtam.
Long live Manchester United!
Look at the way we won the Charity Shield! It is a warning to the rest in EPL......
you forgot PS3......liverpool......
alot of cross-over leh...........you belong where huh???..............
end up ppl like yuan will butterfly all over the place!!!..............
I'm thinking of crossing over to the dark side too
7 pm is a luxury. My meetings have no time limit sometimes.
I don't mind working at home till 12 midnight. By 6/7pm, I MUST leave office!
I'm thinking of crossing over to the dark side too
hui tou shi an (Mandarin)
hmmm.............maybe can make in a movie...........
An attractive article I must say!
hui tou shi an (Mandarin)
No, I refuse..
PS3 is too fast for lao lang like me.
I go liverpool thread is either to hamtam people or kena hamtam.
Long live Manchester United!
Look at the way we won the Charity Shield! It is a warning to the rest in EPL......
no mah........they also ever green thread leh..............you really heart grow one side.............only mention those you are there happily.......
I think you belong to AYDN thread lah.................but if fight which side you stand huh???
just like GS that day said "WE (TR) are trying to challenge US (PS3)"................make no sense........
I'm thinking of crossing over to the dark side too
you already have your thread.............manage it well and grow it lah..........than from time to time copy ah yuan...........fly here fly there a bit..........
PS3 unless you play...........and all guys
liverpool..............all about football
AYDN...........very closed thread...
TCSS........end up all dirty
TR.........basically a tiko thread
where you want to cross over to???.............
you already have your thread.............manage it well and grow it lah..........than from time to time copy ah yuan...........fly here fly there a bit..........
PS3 unless you play...........and all guys
liverpool..............all about football
AYDN...........very closed thread...
TCSS........end up all dirty
TR.........basically a tiko thread
where you want to cross over to???.............
Hello uncle, why quote me?
Never die before si bo?
no mah........they also ever green thread leh..............you really heart grow one side.............only mention those you are there happily.......
I think you belong to AYDN thread lah.................but if fight which side you stand huh???
just like GS that day said "WE (TR) are trying to challenge US (PS3)"................make no sense........
I belong to no thread.
I usually hang around those car-related folders. Everyday learn something new.
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