You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why?
How high can you fly?
HIGHER than me?..hehehehe
Insecure of what ??????
When in bed, you be the commander ...
Sure or not, I just got AR by this gal...feel so violated and shoik...hahaha
for example when doing or buying something...just ask for his "opinion or permission"..although he is not the one paying...but give him some "respect"...u know lah..man 's ego very fragile one... hahaha
personally i think it is ok to date...as long as the girl make the man feel that he is still the MAN....
for example when doing or buying something...just ask for his "opinion or permission"..although he is not the one paying...but give him some "respect"...u know lah..man 's ego very fragile one... hahaha
no ley according to icebrush79 hahaha
Oh...actually depends on individual..no ley according to icebrush79 hahaha
For my friend's case...his wife earns more that him and family also more well to do...
When his wife decided to trade in her car n buy a new one...she just go to the showroom with her brother..trade in n drive back the car..
my friend only know when she drive back the car.....
so u think is it too much or wat? up to individual..
to me ..YES...everytime i think of buying something big ticket item or even just a fish tank...i will still ask my wife...although she need not pay a single cent at all..
Oh...actually depends on individual..
For my friend's case...his wife earns more that him and family also more well to do...
When his wife decided to trade in her car n buy a new one...she just go to the showroom with her brother..trade in n drive back the car..
my friend only know when she drive back the car.....
so u think is it too much or wat? up to individual..
to me ..YES...everytime i think of buying something big ticket item or even just a fish tank...i will still ask my wife...although she need not pay a single cent at all..
Yes I will ask my "wife" too, then she will have thousand and one objections and I will be pissed off....lol...
i think normal couple will discuss lor....so if that kind of respect is not there.......that's itYes I will ask my "wife" too, then she will have thousand and one objections and I will be pissed off....lol...
yes...she might throw my clothes (with me in it) out of the house wau hahaha....And if you don't your wife will make you sleep on newspaper outside the bedroom door
i think normal couple will discuss lor....so if that kind of respect is not there.......that's it
stress la when your wife wants you to buy expensive cars....
stress la when your wife wants you to buy expensive cars....
We would rather get it ourselves and be more proud of it
personally i think it is ok to date...as long as the girl make the man feel that he is still the MAN....
for example when doing or buying something...just ask for his "opinion or permission"..although he is not the one paying...but give him some "respect"...u know lah..man 's ego very fragile one... hahaha
Men's ego is pretty profound to understand at times.. I wouldn't agree on seeking permission for purchases, late nights or other task-based things. I think they might be even irritated by such trivial matters. Opinions yes, and generally to issues that are worthwhile discussing.
dating is secondary.
end of the day, can this relationship be everlasting, this is most important.
i still believe in fate, destiny. =p
How high can you fly?
HIGHER than me?..hehehehe
There's no end when it comes to comparisons.
So let's knock this off.
it's all about chemistry and it always take two hands to clap.
dating is secondary.
end of the day, can this relationship be everlasting, this is most important.
i still believe in fate, destiny. =p
I second it.
she got so many at this forum to choose from ......
Top 4 positions wil goes to Tianmo, MO, Radx & J22 .............
I try not to venture into their territories...
We would rather get it ourselves and be more proud of it
It's also an achievement when your man buys you the 911 for your birthday
It's also an achievement when your man buys you the 911 for your birthday
I don't like to visualise such things..
I don't like to visualise such things..
The guys here can make it happen
It's also an achievement when your man buys you the 911 for your birthday
I miss read your statement. I thot you wrote
It's also an achievement to buy your man buys a 911 for his birthday.
If you love your man, you would want to make him happy rite?
I really believe in equality, if a man can buy his wife a nice car,
women should have that right too!
Earning power of my partner dun really matter to me when i was dating. The more relevant question will be whether the supposed high flyer is prepared to date me if I'm earning less, and yet treat me as an equal.You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why?
she got so many at this forum to choose from ......
Top 4 positions wil goes to Tianmo, MO, Radx & J22 .............
er...............excuse me................how come got my name mention huh???.................simi dai ji huh???
lucky i nothing to do come here to kpo............if not die also don't know why!!!
btw .............????...????...hor....
We don't just "think" we are great..We are really better off compared to some men..
But what causes the insecurity? Many attributing factors.
We do know how to step aside and let partners enjoy their well deserved pride and ego..
aiyo.............sis...................wrong place................wrong time............you come here and ask relationship will get you no where............more ppl here trying to date you than anything else (I am not included
)................if you think can click.............nothing wrong with calling him right???................no need to date mah.............just drop some hit for him to open mouth to date you lah.............best of both world!!!
Best of luck!!!
Insecure of what ??????
When in bed, you be the commander ...
but i always make sure my partner enjoys 1st b4 I enjoy myself leh.................
it's all about chemistry and it always take two hands to clap.
dating is secondary.
end of the day, can this relationship be everlasting, this is most important.
i still believe in fate, destiny. =p
yup................if it is yours.............it will end up yours...............if it is not........it will never be!!!
decisions we made are actually fated to be so!!!
I try not to venture into their territories...
don't listen to him................these 4 are the good guys.............
aiyo.............sis...................wrong place................wrong time............you come here and ask relationship will get you no where............more ppl here trying to date you than anything else (I am not included
if you think can click.............nothing wrong with calling him right???................no need to date mah.............just drop some hit for him to open mouth to date you lah.............best of both world!!!
Best of luck!!!
Hello Tianmo bro, haha I'm afraid that I have to emphasise again that I'm not the gal in question. The topic was purely an analogy. Trying to understand more about men's ego, equality in relationships etc..I knew I would get interesting replies as this forum is dominated by the males..though some are very OT.
Edited by Jillietta, 18 July 2011 - 11:37 PM.
Hello Tianmo bro, haha I'm afraid that I have to emphasise again that I'm not the gal in question. The topic was purely an analogy. Trying to understand more about men's ego, equality in relationships etc..I knew I would get interesting replies as this forum is dominated by the males..though some are very OT.
oh not you huh??...............ok ok sorry sorry!!!
anyway..............here...........man ego is high to the max!!!.................but than again how would the guy know that the lady is a high flyer on their 1st meet???
and if the girl is high flying....attractive.....with high level of EQ................I think the Q to date her will be from changi to jurong liao...
those who dare date her will properly be in that same bracket........maybe just mid low while she is mid high.........those lower may have run far far away!!!
Hello Tianmo bro, haha I'm afraid that I have to emphasise again that I'm not the gal in question. The topic was purely an analogy. Trying to understand more about men's ego, equality in relationships etc..I knew I would get interesting replies as this forum is dominated by the males..though some are very OT.
wu yar boh?
wu yar boh?
yo bro..............I really like your avatar...........very cute man!!!
oh not you huh??...............ok ok sorry sorry!!!
anyway..............here...........man ego is high to the max!!!.................but than again how would the guy know that the lady is a high flyer on their 1st meet???
and if the girl is high flying....attractive.....with high level of EQ................I think the Q to date her will be from changi to jurong liao...
those who dare date her will properly be in that same bracket........maybe just mid low while she is mid high.........those lower may have run far far away!!!
Eh no leh..99% of the replies said even if they were of a lower bracket, still date!
Eh no leh..99% of the replies said even if they were of a lower bracket, still date!
oh...............nobody ever told you anything about polls here huh???
if you ever ask about evens and odds here...............and 90% say even.................sell your house and put every single cents on odd!!!
Haha nice! Super like the way you put it.
tianmo speaks the truth...........the only truth..............and nothing but the truth!!!
and good night!!!
no ley according to icebrush79 hahaha
Well...cus i'm cum gong 6 years ago... If I find a partner who earns more than me now... i'll gladly accept...wahahaha
On a serious note... it depends on which stage of career building a guy is..to me at least..
Back then, (that's 6 years ago...mind you), I was still at my career building stage, naturally, i'm competitive and my ego takes a beating when my partner earns more.. (she was 4 years my senior, so its pretty natural)...
Now... I've achieved the standards i've set for myself... thus its a plus if my partner earns more..together, we can achieve more... and naturally, the ego doesn't hurt anymore since i've actualised what I seeked out to reach
I miss read your statement. I thot you wrote
It's also an achievement to buy your man buys a 911 for his birthday.
If you love your man, you would want to make him happy rite?
I really believe in equality, if a man can buy his wife a nice car,
women should have that right too!
Certainly! I wish I can buy my wife a 911 but haven't reach that stage yet, but it's still something to look forward! life is about hope, if not nutti to live for!
Well...cus i'm cum gong 6 years ago... If I find a partner who earns more than me now... i'll gladly accept...wahahaha
On a serious note... it depends on which stage of career building a guy is..to me at least..
Back then, (that's 6 years ago...mind you), I was still at my career building stage, naturally, i'm competitive and my ego takes a beating when my partner earns more.. (she was 4 years my senior, so its pretty natural)...
Now... I've achieved the standards i've set for myself... thus its a plus if my partner earns more..together, we can achieve more... and naturally, the ego doesn't hurt anymore since i've actualised what I seeked out to reach
Yup, sori to drag you in cos I remember reading your posting on confident men....you and your partner very deng dui(matching) ley....when are you guys getting married?
Yup, sori to drag you in cos I remember reading your posting on confident men....you and your partner very deng dui(matching) ley....when are you guys getting married?
No worries man !!
Matching... haha.. what you see in a photo is one dimensional... ie you won't see our unhappy moments and the fights we have sometimes, like most couples..haha... I don't feel like getting married yet.... No worries man !!
ok la, you are only 32, still young...your partner younger rite....spend a few more years establishing your career first
You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why?
Typically for such ladies, they are looking for a guy with drive and passion in both work and life, someone with confidence, a go-getter.
For you to ask such a question, I think it will not work out for you and the gal in the long run.
Typically for such ladies, they are looking for a guy with drive and passion in both work and life, someone with confidence, a go-getter.
For you to ask such a question, I think it will not work out for you and the gal in the long run.
i think she IS that girl
where have you been? busy with your baby?
You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why?
Of course why not? This allows me to retire earlier and focus all my loves and attention towards her
$ isn't anything in the world. Imagine yourself stranded on an island, you want tons of $ or a gal to keep you company ?
Life is short.... enjoy while it last....
Edited by Hsiao, 19 July 2011 - 02:58 PM.
You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why?
date.. then work harder.
some girls these days are not exactly that particular abt how much her man makes etc.. most imptly is u have to be continually driven and do ur best... and love her and be thoughtful of her needs...
You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why?
I read with great interest and just couldn't help it. But let me declare that I'm happily married before I move on.
I couldn't care less how much a girl is earning and what car she drives if I want to date her out. Her wealth is of no consequence how much I might like her. There would be a LOT of more important things I care about the girl I want to date.
If a girl thinks her money is the reason why she gets interested by a guy, or will play a big role in her date, she is not to blame. She lives in reality and she may be right sometimes. But if she puts that thought on me, I walk away. This is not my girl.
I have too much pride to see incentives in dating a girl for her money (I don't equate my pride with ego. But it may take me another post on that topic).
And for very good reasons that not everyone sees, I am not a coward to give up on a girl simply because she's rich. But I'm not gonna answer a question that was not asked since the post opener only wanted to know why in the scenario when a guy decides not to date her out.
I think we should all meet up this friday night at ECP 9pm for a heart to heart talk and discuss whether guys should be like that!!!
Then I'll take it as you are joining and not just to shake hands ok!
I think we should all meet up this friday night at ECP 9pm for a heart to heart talk and discuss whether guys should be like that!!!
Or are you implying I meet you for half an hour only?!!
Or are you implying I meet you for half an hour only?!!
So I presume this is your thread? TS is you mah....
So we can drift here tio bo?
So I presume this is your thread? TS is you mah....
So we can drift here tio bo?
Yes, it's me..By all means drift..ok!
But hor..please dont do it until I'm too embarassed to come in
Edited by Jillietta, 09 August 2011 - 09:48 PM.
Or are you implying I meet you for half an hour only?!!
1 on 1, heart to heart talk? lol...I think 20G will be jealous...hehehe, along with many other guys....damn I just made myself more unpop
1 on 1, heart to heart talk? lol...I think 20G will be jealous...hehehe, along with many other guys....damn I just made myself more unpop
20G is married ok?? Jealous for wad?
1 on 1, heart to heart talk? lol...I think 20G will be jealous...hehehe, along with many other guys....damn I just made myself more unpop
You may just make yourself popular among us ok?
1 on 1, heart to heart talk? lol...I think 20G will be jealous...hehehe, along with many other guys....damn I just made myself more unpop
No leh, you said you sleep at 10pm..How like dat?
Yes, it's me..By all means drift..ok!
But hor..please dont do it until I'm too embarassed to come in
What you mean by too embarassed?
Can drift har? You say wan hor....
I go jio all the ho hia di to come here liao.
Mai tu liao.
No leh, you said you sleep at 10pm..How like dat?
aiyo, I have a boring life la....I play till 9pm then go home to rest to prepare myself for next day's work...
What you mean by too embarassed?
Can drift har? You say wan hor....
I go jio all the ho hia di to come here liao.
Mai tu liao.
I have to say this again wor..
Please dont OT till TS is too embarassed to have any input..
Else, I will have to listen to TM da ge..politely ask everyone to leave..haha
20G is married ok?? Jealous for wad?
Nowadays very common to have 2nd one hor...
aiyo, I have a boring life la....I play till 9pm then go home to rest to prepare myself for next day's work...
Hmm..how to balance work and play like dat?
Nowadays very common to have 2nd one hor...
Sorry, I'm not so bad till I have to resort being a 2nd.
I have to say this again wor..
Please dont OT till TS is too embarassed to have any input..
Else, I will have to listen to TM da ge..politely ask everyone to leave..haha
You still haven't say what the standard of embarassment is......
But I think we are reasonable people. So we still respect one another as we drift.
Sorry, I'm not so bad till I have to resort being a 2nd.
Actually being the 2nd one is a blessing cos the 2nd one is always the one being doted on and loved...
aiyo, I have a boring life la....I play till 9pm then go home to rest to prepare myself for next day's work...
Play what until 9 pm?
Hmm..how to balance work and play like dat?
Is there such a thing anymore in Sinkapore today?
Actually being the 2nd one is a blessing cos the 2nd one is always the one being doted on and loved...
I demand to be the first!! And the last!
Is there such a thing anymore in Sinkapore today?
Definitely. We can teach you how to balance up your life
You still haven't say what the standard of embarassment is......
But I think we are reasonable people. So we still respect one another as we drift.
You know it!
See, you are trying to start it
I demand to be the first!! And the last!
Yup, you deserve it....wan me to intro my private banking fren to you? hehe
lol, I know what you want me to say....I do work till 9pm sometimes, and even today I also working....that's how bad it is...Play what until 9 pm?
Yup, you deserve it....wan me to intro my private banking fren to you? hehe
He got to queue unfortunately.
lol, I know what you want me to say....I do work till 9pm sometimes, and even today I also working....that's how bad it is...
Woah..and you can mcf all day long!
What kind of job eh? Other than you are into sales..
I think they make a great couple
as they seem to be so similar
and have a lot in common.
He got to queue unfortunately.
wahhhaha.....number what in the queue.....he always cut queue one....
I hope Sabbie meets Jill.
I think they make a great couple
as they seem to be so similar
and have a lot in common.
Haha, yeah thanks. We are settling the meetup now..
wahhhaha.....number what in the queue.....he always cut queue one....
Then like dat no gentleman. Can skip him..
Woah..and you can mcf all day long!
What kind of job eh? Other than you are into sales..
Err....multi task at work?...cos at my department I am the boss but once I go hq I am the smallest F***
I hope Sabbie meets Jill.
I think they make a great couple
as they seem to be so similar
and have a lot in common.
Err no la I am not good enough for her....will end up like the guy mentioned in the start of this thread....haha
Definitely. We can teach you how to balance up your life
We?
Err no la I am not good enough for her....will end up like the guy mentioned in the start of this thread....haha
I have seen someone posted this "Would rather cry in a bmw than being laughed at in a bicycle"
I'm in that category.
Then like dat no gentleman. Can skip him..
Err, he is thinking of divorce now and is looking for a woman to love totally....you and him seems quite suited for each other
Haha, yeah thanks. We are settling the meetup now..
Friday I can't make it. You folks enjoy.
Another time ba.
We?
Our group. They are all fun-loving people..U will enjoy our MUs..
You know it!
See, you are trying to start it
Start what?
Our group. They are all fun-loving people..U will enjoy our MUs..
Your group got who? MCF people?
I have seen someone posted this "Would rather cry in a bmw than being laughed at in a bicycle"
I'm in that category.
lol...knowing yourself and admitting it is already good enough...better than me...so stingy and would rather drive a jap car than a bmw...
anyway pretty girls are usually like that....that's why need a lot of TLC...not suitable for childish men like me
Your group got who? MCF people?
Yes, we got to know one another from MCF
Some knew for more than a year le..
lol, I know what you want me to say....I do work till 9pm sometimes, and even today I also working....that's how bad it is...
No wor. What you want me to want you to say?
I am working all the time (most of the time).
Your group got who? MCF people?
I think got minikong and 20G, the rest dunno....
Yes, we got to know one another from MCF
Some knew for more than a year le..
Wow.....sounds good.
U mean that heavenly demon and a few others?
Err, he is thinking of divorce now and is looking for a woman to love totally....you and him seems quite suited for each other
Never be a match-maker.
Ive heard horrible tales..
then you and me same lor....have to work like s--t....hard lifeNo wor. What you want me to want you to say?
I am working all the time (most of the time).
Wow.....sounds good.
U mean that heavenly demon and a few others?
Oh no, TM da ge is our new friend on this Friday..and Pklim82..and maybe Sabbie just there to shake hands
Never be a match-maker.
Ive heard horrible tales..
haha, ya I am sure a sociable gal like you have no problem meeting man, the problem is you are too choosy!
lol...knowing yourself and admitting it is already good enough...better than me...so stingy and would rather drive a jap car than a bmw...
anyway pretty girls are usually like that....that's why need a lot of TLC...not suitable for childish men like me
Passat is Jap mah?
And hor, photos are deceiving Im telling u!
then you and me same lor....have to work like s--t....hard life
For me, I am enjoying my work. Even then, still struggle with the demands and pressures.
1 on 1, heart to heart talk? lol...I think 20G will be jealous...hehehe, along with many other guys....damn I just made myself more unpop
eh halo.. jealous wat jealous? i got standard one ok!
Oh no, TM da ge is our new friend on this Friday..and Pklim82..and maybe Sabbie just there to shake hands
You don't diam diam call him ta ge. His ego now damn big like tonight floating platform.
haha, ya I am sure a sociable gal like you have no problem meeting man, the problem is you are too choosy!
Who doesn't choose?
You don't diam diam call him ta ge. His ego now damn big like tonight floating platform.
Ok wad..I know his real name also.
I will call him *real name* da ge when I see him on Friday
Passat is Jap mah?
And hor, photos are deceiving Im telling u!
Eh.....You drive spot car har?
Elite siah.....
20G is married ok?? Jealous for wad?
eh, dis year im not married yet..
You don't diam diam call him ta ge. His ego now damn big like tonight floating platform.
lol I also call him da ge ley
For me, I am enjoying my work. Even then, still struggle with the demands and pressures.
Yeah, I fire fight almost everyday too!
eh halo.. jealous wat jealous? i got standard one ok!
are u saying j is chui? haha
Yeah, I fire fight almost everyday too!
that sounds familar....wat you do?
Eh.....You drive spot car har?
Elite siah.....
Wad sports car?
I road hog everyday, esp at night.
are u saying j is chui? haha
Eh, leave me alone in this please.
eh, dis year im not married yet..
Woah, so profound..
well i guess for me got good got bad la.....now more bad than good....so a bit moody and sianz...but the mark of a good man is not when everyting is smooth sailing but being able to pick up the prices when you failFor me, I am enjoying my work. Even then, still struggle with the demands and pressures.
Yup, you deserve it....wan me to intro my private banking fren to you? hehe
dun. introduce only if u hate ur fren. otherwise, ur fren will hate u for life for such a ???..
well i guess for me got good got bad la.....now more bad than good....so a bit moody and sianz...but the mark of a good man is not when everyting is smooth sailing but being able to pick up the prices when you fail
Sibey profound. Tonight I koon buay ki.
Eh, leave me alone in this please.
just joking, everyone is beautiful in their own way...and you are the rose among the thorns here
dun. introduce only if u hate ur fren. otherwise, ur fren will hate u for life for such a ???..
why you keep suaning Jill today huh....hehehe...
You don't diam diam call him ta ge. His ego now damn big like tonight floating platform.
oi...............long long give me song 1 time also cannot meh............you very bad heart leh...........
Sibey profound. Tonight I koon buay ki.
tonight market stablizing....can sleep la...
oi...............long long give me song 1 time also cannot meh............you very bad heart leh...........
Tianmo Da Ge!!!! you are here!
those that build up their own wealth and drive super cars....
girls automatically come no need to look
Edited by Ithunk, 09 August 2011 - 10:44 PM.
that sounds familar....wat you do?
in case u dun know, she's an officer wif the SCDF as a fire fighter. uniform group, u like?
why you keep suaning Jill today huh....hehehe...
in private i treat her very nice one..... hahahaha...
Tianmo Da Ge!!!! you are here!
so happen to click the thread................
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