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To Date Or Not part 1

  • 10 July 2011 - 11:14 PM
    Jillietta
    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif
  • 10 July 2011 - 11:18 PM
    Galantspeedz
    Yes
  • 10 July 2011 - 11:20 PM
    Nicz
    I suppose you're that gal?

    Yea i would date her. No reasonable reason not to...
  • 10 July 2011 - 11:20 PM
    PPeripheraL
    No and ego.
  • 10 July 2011 - 11:32 PM
    Jillietta

    I suppose you're that gal?

    Yea i would date her. No reasonable reason not to...


    I'm not smile.gif
    Just trying to understand men's psychology towards this issue here..
  • 10 July 2011 - 11:34 PM
    Ithunk

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    lol yes y not.....

    i want to meet a girl tt drives a mercedes
  • 10 July 2011 - 11:36 PM
    Bavarian

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    as long as my OC is okay with it happy.gif
  • 10 July 2011 - 11:37 PM
    Tigershark1976
    dun see y not....

    Edited by Tigershark1976, 10 July 2011 - 11:42 PM.

  • 10 July 2011 - 11:44 PM
    Turboflat4

    as long as my OC is okay with it happy.gif


    Your OC can be quite a bear with a sore head if crossed. tongue.gif
  • 10 July 2011 - 11:53 PM
    Thaiyotakamli

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif

    not bad can support u wad... wub.gif
  • 10 July 2011 - 11:58 PM
    Orangepineapple

    not bad can support u wad... wub.gif


    agreed biggrin.gif
  • 10 July 2011 - 11:59 PM
    Gobbler
    why not, nothing to lose
  • 11 July 2011 - 12:08 AM
    Ithunk
    ya just date..
  • 11 July 2011 - 12:19 AM
    Jillietta
    But I also understand there are quite a number of guys who seek to be the superior one and desire for their partner to look up to them. Only then, their egoism and probably sense of security in the relationship will be fulfilled... rolleyes.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 12:20 AM
    Ithunk

    But I also understand there are quite a number of guys who seek to be the superior one and desire for their partner to look up to them. Only then, their egoism and probably sense of security in the relationship will be fulfilled... rolleyes.gif


    lol yea competition.... laugh.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 12:23 AM
    20G

    But I also understand there are quite a number of guys who seek to be the superior one and desire for their partner to look up to them. Only then, their egoism and probably sense of security in the relationship will be fulfilled... rolleyes.gif


    so late u havent sleep? hee hee
  • 11 July 2011 - 12:27 AM
    Mike1234

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    If i like her, i would continue to woo her and eventually date her...

    Well, it's just a normal date (e.g watch movie, eat dinner, sing ktv,etc)

    It would be more of "get to know the other person closer" type...

    wink.gif


  • 11 July 2011 - 12:35 AM
    Davidtkl
    If she doesn't mind, I dont mind too.
  • 11 July 2011 - 12:43 AM
    Xspace
    Why not...
  • 11 July 2011 - 01:36 AM
    Whisper_2000

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif



    Yes. Love can make you FLY!
  • 11 July 2011 - 02:33 AM
    Darthrevan
    love knows no boundaries
  • 11 July 2011 - 02:37 AM
    Vid
    The consensus here has said it all. GO FOR IT! Dating only mah...

    But if marriage, I would say think twice unsure.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 02:50 AM
    Feeldown
    nope... i will NOT go after!!!!

    why?.... i still remember... that;s once... i met a very sweet gal from birthday party...
    then when come out... just nice we go the same way... then i ask her... where she stay... and is near my house!!! i so happy... asking her if she want me to drive her home? seen we stay near by... which we are just beside my car (a small jap car) then she reply... she also have car...

    tut tut... boomboomm.... also start.... park just beside my car... a WRX!!!! that go my ego...

    never contact her again...
  • 11 July 2011 - 02:56 AM
    Nicz
    I doubt the rex was hers. How many chicks would actually choose a rex as their car?
  • 11 July 2011 - 06:14 AM
    Elfenstar

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    Yes, and I am laugh.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 06:51 AM
    Good-Carbuyer

    nope... i will NOT go after!!!!

    why?.... i still remember... that;s once... i met a very sweet gal from birthday party...
    then when come out... just nice we go the same way... then i ask her... where she stay... and is near my house!!! i so happy... asking her if she want me to drive her home? seen we stay near by... which we are just beside my car (a small jap car) then she reply... she also have car...

    tut tut... boomboomm.... also start.... park just beside my car... a WRX!!!! that go my ego...

    never contact her again...

    Try to be more open-minded. It was a WRX only. If Rolls Royce then can tell me there is a difference.
  • 11 July 2011 - 08:24 AM
    Orangepineapple
    from the replies here.. seem like most bros here do not mind to eat soft rice? laugh.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 08:32 AM
    Freestylers09
    Date her not ask her to feed u also ma lol


  • 11 July 2011 - 08:35 AM
    Picnic06-Biante15

    from the replies here.. seem like most bros here do not mind to eat soft rice? laugh.gif



    The question here is to date or not to date ?

    Life partner is another yardstick to ponder... ph34r.gif

    Without datings, one could not able to judge her characters, gentle side, self esteem, temper, unseen side, body odour or bad breath ..... tongue.gif tongue.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 08:44 AM
    Badder

    But I also understand there are quite a number of guys who seek to be the superior one and desire for their partner to look up to them. Only then, their egoism and probably sense of security in the relationship will be fulfilled... rolleyes.gif



    yeah they are called losers


  • 11 July 2011 - 08:51 AM
    Rncw
    shoot first talk later....
  • 11 July 2011 - 08:56 AM
    SimonTan
    Man has ego.
    Some feels small to chase such high level girls.
    Some like the chase itself.
    Some like to conquer, and some dump after that.

    I
  • 11 July 2011 - 09:18 AM
    Jman888

    The question here is to date or not to date ?

    Life partner is another yardstick to ponder... ph34r.gif

    Without datings, one could not able to judge her characters, gentle side, self esteem, temper, unseen side, body odour or bad breath ..... tongue.gif tongue.gif



    you go Hainan island to get married also never date before laugh.gif

    last time ah gong ah mah never date, the dun even know how each other look like laugh.gif laugh.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 09:18 AM
    Jman888

    Man has ego.
    Some feels small to chase such high level girls.
    Some like the chase itself.
    Some like to conquer, and some dump after that.

    I



    time change, many man can be 'soft' biggrin.gif biggrin.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 09:20 AM
    Mrmilktooth
    just dot it.. ui never noe where it will lead u..


  • 11 July 2011 - 09:25 AM
    Freestylers09
    if to prove ego..small to chase high level then more power leh...

    no meh?HAHA!
  • 11 July 2011 - 09:25 AM
    Pcslim

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif

    If u are interested, be a man and give it a try.

    For all u know, she may not even want to accept ur date.

  • 11 July 2011 - 09:27 AM
    Tianmo

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif



    No, I will not.........................................I wait for her to date me....... tongue.gif tongue.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 09:34 AM
    Ahtong

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    how chio? tongue.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 09:41 AM
    Orangepineapple

    Date her not ask her to feed u also ma lol


    true la.. some rich girls even though they rich but they also expect the guy to pay for everything.. happy.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 09:52 AM
    Blogtowkay
    yes. should try first than c how. biggrin.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 09:58 AM
    Rollagt
    Doesn't means she is always high flyer for the rest of her life and also doesn't mean U be always "below" her wor.

    I saw late President Wee Kim Wee articles online previously on his life. He says when he wanna marry her then gf, her parents object coz he is a lowly reporter and earn v little.

    Look what happen to him .
  • 11 July 2011 - 10:01 AM
    Freestylers09
    my friend wife richer than him..
    wedding house renovation 100k+ all she paid

    stress sia laugh.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 10:09 AM
    Rosschang
    Yes if you can make her submit to you...
  • 11 July 2011 - 10:20 AM
    Csnewbie

    how chio? tongue.gif

    dont be biased la...

    some ppl look like whore/girl older some more also got ppl date... shakehead.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 10:56 AM
    Sabbie
    Actually I have dated rich and more ordinary girls before, in fact some of these richer girls are much more sensible and well mannered compared to the more average girl, so do not judge anyone by the surface and get to know them better
  • 11 July 2011 - 11:12 AM
    Karu

    Actually I have dated rich and more ordinary girls before, in fact some of these richer girls are much more sensible and well mannered compared to the more average girl, so do not judge anyone by the surface and get to know them better


    Agree. Many 'average' girl have unrealistic expectation of their dates. For rich girls, they know that they are covered financially, so some will not be bothered if you are not as well off. They'll just focus on your character & compatibility. Maybe eventually, it's the parents that you'll have to deal with. They'll think you are not good enuff for their girl...

    Edited by Karu, 11 July 2011 - 11:13 AM.

  • 11 July 2011 - 11:15 AM
    Tinydog
    Date if the feeling is right! If not compatible then re consider again lo.
  • 11 July 2011 - 11:23 AM
    Fcw75
    I will, provided the lady drives a 370Z. Do you?
  • 11 July 2011 - 11:26 AM
    Mustank
    grin.gif better check chio bu is married or not grin.gif

    grin.gif http://www.mycarforu...o...666113&st=0 grin.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 11:27 AM
    Celicar

    how chio? tongue.gif

    Finally, the logical next question. laugh.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 11:28 AM
    Freestylers09
    you cant achieve so hope your guy achieve for you logic??lol
  • 11 July 2011 - 12:45 PM
    Sabbie

    Agree. Many 'average' girl have unrealistic expectation of their dates. For rich girls, they know that they are covered financially, so some will not be bothered if you are not as well off. They'll just focus on your character & compatibility. Maybe eventually, it's the parents that you'll have to deal with. They'll think you are not good enuff for their girl...

    Yup precisely, if the girl is rich and a high flyer on her own accord it shows that she is managing her life well and you will have less problems as her bf or husband, it will also inspire you to do better in life to catch up with her, give you an example tommie goh's son in law was that rich when he married the daughter but is now a successful entrprenuer
  • 11 July 2011 - 12:59 PM
    Jamesc
    I don't mind.

    Where to find them and what cars do they drive? biggrin.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 01:08 PM
    LoverofCar

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    Mai tan liao...this is one of the chance to get a rich girl and live happy everafter.....but must remember to polish your face with turtle wax to make it fair and white first.....haha tongue.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 01:09 PM
    Watwheels

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif

    Aiya, NPNT! Just post the picture of the gal and her mobile number.

    Guys mentality very simple. Chio, we will date regardless she's doing better or not. Not chio, we give all kinds of lame excuse.
  • 11 July 2011 - 01:13 PM
    Sibeitulan

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif

    I treat this girl as my ???
  • 11 July 2011 - 01:15 PM
    Sibeitulan

    my friend wife richer than him..
    wedding house renovation 100k+ all she paid

    stress sia laugh.gif

    Does she have a sister?
  • 11 July 2011 - 01:16 PM
    Unidentified

    Aiya, NPNT! Just post the picture of the gal and her mobile number.

    Guys mentality very simple. Chio, we will date regardless she's doing better or not. Not chio, we give all kinds of lame excuse.


    very true,as long as chio,dont care she poor or rich.
    so what if rich but face look like lorry,i cant imagine myself fxxking her,i think i will be crying then.
  • 11 July 2011 - 04:06 PM
    Sabbie

    very true,as long as chio,dont care she poor or rich.
    so what if rich but face look like lorry,i cant imagine myself fxxking her,i think i will be crying then.


    I always wondered to myself, if I have two girls to choose, one is chio but no money rely on you for support, the other is plain jane maybe abit below average but rich, which one will I choose
  • 11 July 2011 - 04:10 PM
    Mike1234

    I always wondered to myself, if I have two girls to choose, one is chio but no money rely on you for support, the other is plain jane maybe abit below average but rich, which one will I choose


    i will choose the one who loves me more

    wink.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 04:28 PM
    Sabbie

    i will choose the one who loves me more

    wink.gif


    We hold other factors constant if not too many variables, so which one will you choose if both loves you equally.
  • 11 July 2011 - 04:37 PM
    Picnic06-Biante15

    I always wondered to myself, if I have two girls to choose, one is chio but no money rely on you for support, the other is plain jane maybe abit below average but rich, which one will I choose


    I choose both ..... sly.gif

    Marry the rich one first and with her $$$$$$, keep the other one ....... smash.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 04:41 PM
    Fireball0088

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    why you are asking this question? you are a girl? asking for a guy ar?

    depends on the guy's character.... tell us more about him
  • 11 July 2011 - 04:44 PM
    Sabbie

    I choose both ..... sly.gif

    Marry the rich one first and with her $$$$$$, keep the other one ....... smash.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif


    hahaha....why didn't I think of that, think I too honest man leow, must learn from you
  • 11 July 2011 - 04:52 PM
    Mockngbrd
    find rich one den piak piak den make her preggers then marry
  • 11 July 2011 - 04:52 PM
    Hulk
    wink.gif

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    Why not? What a question, if she never reject you..... cool.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 04:55 PM
    Picnic06-Biante15

    find rich one den piak piak den make her preggers then marry


    ha..ha... then DNA test with results, you not the father but to bad, you married her leow ...... ph34r.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:00 PM
    Davidtch
    Why not?

    My life ambition since young was house hubby.
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:01 PM
    Old-driver

    I always wondered to myself, if I have two girls to choose, one is chio but no money rely on you for support, the other is plain jane maybe abit below average but rich, which one will I choose

    I choose the chio one
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:04 PM
    Sabbie

    I choose the chio one

    All rightz! first honest answer!
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:08 PM
    Aaron_soh80
    How abt would u date with someone who already has a bf ?
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:21 PM
    Jj5599

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    The question is whether she want to date you? then talk about whether u mind dating her.
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:22 PM
    Jj5599

    How abt would u date with someone who already has a bf ?


    You must ask bf for permission
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:24 PM
    Csnewbie

    How abt would u date with someone who already has a bf ?

    then wear armor when leaving home lor.
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:34 PM
    Ahtong

    How abt would u date with someone who already has a bf ?


    How chio? tongue.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:43 PM
    Old-driver

    All rightz! first honest answer!

    All those who say go for inner beauty or for the money are not honest! next moment see a chio bu the eyes roam...
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:44 PM
    I-LOVE-CARS
    The Gril Chio bo first..
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:48 PM
    Csnewbie

    The Gril Chio bo first..

    your puberty completed? tongue.gif tongue.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:51 PM
    Davidtch

    You must ask bf for permission

    R u sure u gonna ask for permission (so gentleman meh)?
  • 11 July 2011 - 05:57 PM
    Gendut

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    Here is how I analyse this.

    To the girl, if the guy does this to you, you're better off without him. Its useless carrying on with a man with self-confidence issues. Someone who monetises a relationship wil eventually kill it. So save yourselves the trouble.

    To a guy if he does this, get a life. A relationship is about *how-you-feel*. Period.
  • 11 July 2011 - 06:59 PM
    Icebrush79

    But I also understand there are quite a number of guys who seek to be the superior one and desire for their partner to look up to them. Only then, their egoism and probably sense of security in the relationship will be fulfilled... rolleyes.gif


    Been there, done that... She was my MBA calssmate, 4 years older, BDM for Allergan (Botox) back then (2005)... looks wise, I would say above average.. (well, you can't expect a horse or sow to sell botox right??) - (my own judgement hor... there're many sensitive feathers here I wouldn't wanna ruffle)....

    I don't seek to be the superior one, neither do I fancy a woman who depends on the man for her upkeep and living expenses... What I want is a partner to achieve certain standards in life, together... as a union... perhaps a mirror image of myself....

    Anyway since you're at it.... these are the issues faced by both of us back then:

    ME
    1) I feel that she doesn't take my words seriously sometimes... because she is higher flying and earning better than me (at that time)
    2) Yet being like most woman, she is very contradicting, she expects me to pay for all our dates... have expectations during birthdays, anniversarys, etc
    3) I always feel compared... she loves to compare me against her other suitor (who is 4 years her senior)... I mean... hello !!!!!

    SHE
    1) She feels very insecured.. to the extend that she checks my phone, deleted all my ex gf(s)'s contact etc etc...
    2) Keeps wanting commitment from me (what I wanted then, was a companion)
    3) When my career started to take off one year after we were together, she felt even more insecured (even bitter at times) that I began to have the ability to lead in our conversations

    In the end, our breakup affected her alot... (actually, I kinda dumped her). she lost her job at Allergan and I didn't hear from her since after our graduation ceremony.

    Some of the forummers here (who were my previous colleagues) knew about us... (disclaimer: just in case someone comes out accusing me of creating fictitious characters...)
  • 11 July 2011 - 07:11 PM
    Freestylers09

    Does she have a sister?



    her sis a actress/celebrity in malaysia...now having her own program with a famous guy in the industry in radio or tv laugh.gif

    another high flyer sis
  • 11 July 2011 - 07:43 PM
    Jillietta
    Hello IceBrush! I totally agree with what you said about achieving certain standards in life together.

    Putting personal achievements aside, I feel good quality communications are so important between the both. It lays the ground for everything else. And good communications do not just mean those daily concern questions "Back home ready?" "Eaten already?" rolleyes.gif A lot of us have experienced nothing but all these questions, and yes daily.. Eh we do know how to get home and have our dinner! We create closeness of feelings by conversing, good conversations! Which eventually lead to mutual support and respect I think. But at the same time, no action and all talks can make people quite mad! smash.gif


  • 11 July 2011 - 07:55 PM
    Porker
    Why don't you take a leap and try it out instead of worrying about this and that? Take a quick exit if you know it isn't working out. No harm trying first biggrin.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 08:01 PM
    Sabbie
    Takes two hands to clap, take your time to find your soulmate and do not rush into things, do not be part of the divorce statistic in singapore
  • 11 July 2011 - 08:06 PM
    Rainman

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    Y not? U already said communications went well.....
  • 11 July 2011 - 08:52 PM
    Leo72

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif



    Yes, why not if both can get along well with each other. Nothing wrong with a gal who's earning more than a guy unless the guy got huge ego problem.
  • 11 July 2011 - 08:57 PM
    Aaron_soh80
    Den would u date a girl who is taller or fatter than u ?
  • 11 July 2011 - 08:58 PM
    Aaron_soh80

    How chio? tongue.gif


    Is ur cai (type)
  • 11 July 2011 - 09:02 PM
    Leo72

    Den would u date a girl who is taller or fatter than u ?


    haha... i dun mind dating a girl who is taller but not a gal who's too much fatter than me... may 6 kg heavier than me still can... if above, cannot lor... later cannot carry her or hug her.
  • 11 July 2011 - 09:58 PM
    Yeshe

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    confirm date, dun mind to be a small man behind the successful woman laugh.gif laugh.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 10:00 PM
    Jamesc

    Hello IceBrush! I totally agree with what you said about achieving certain standards in life together.

    Putting personal achievements aside, I feel good quality communications are so important between the both. It lays the ground for everything else. And good communications do not just mean those daily concern questions "Back home ready?" "Eaten already?" rolleyes.gif A lot of us have experienced nothing but all these questions, and yes daily.. Eh we do know how to get home and have our dinner! We create closeness of feelings by conversing, good conversations! Which eventually lead to mutual support and respect I think. But at the same time, no action and all talks can make people quite mad! smash.gif

    It sounds like you dated a lot of boring guys. biggrin.gif

    Are you still waiting for the guy you met to call?

    If he doesn't why not try MCF? We have so many

    interesting men here and some of them are even single.

    Just post a pic and see what kind of pm you get.

    Take a nice pic of your car and I am sure your

    inbox will be full. biggrin.gif


  • 11 July 2011 - 10:22 PM
    Mahjong74

    I always wondered to myself, if I have two girls to choose, one is chio but no money rely on you for support, the other is plain jane maybe abit below average but rich, which one will I choose


    I will

    Choose the plain jane but rich as my wife

    so that I can support the Chio one but no money as my mistress
  • 11 July 2011 - 10:30 PM
    Sabbie

    I will

    Choose the plain jane but rich as my wife

    so that I can support the Chio one but no money as my mistress


    Hmm....it's a good idea but I couldn't do it, I used to have an ex gf who is quite rich, parents no sons only got daughters, father lend me his merc to drive but I was not attracted to her physically although she is probably average so I broke up with her....besides I tot that if I work hard I can earn the money myself....of cos now I do have a tinge of regret as I get older as I realise that money is so impt....
  • 11 July 2011 - 10:36 PM
    Jillietta

    It sounds like you dated a lot of boring guys. biggrin.gif

    Are you still waiting for the guy you met to call?

    If he doesn't why not try MCF? We have so many

    interesting men here and some of them are even single.

    Just post a pic and see what kind of pm you get.

    Take a nice pic of your car and I am sure your

    inbox will be full. biggrin.gif


    The topic was just an analogy...trying to "research" into men's psychology nowadays..
    I don't have a nice car so nobody will care..forget about the posting n pm sleep.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 10:39 PM
    Hondacub777

    haha... i dun mind dating a girl who is taller but not a gal who's too much fatter than me... may 6 kg heavier than me still can... if above, cannot lor... later cannot carry her or hug her.

    Too fat? No,no.U can't even reach her ,u can only rub her inner thighs?
  • 11 July 2011 - 11:05 PM
    Sabbie

    Too fat? No,no.U can't even reach her ,u can only rub her inner thighs?


    I think fat girls make up for their lack of looks with a good bj and humping session....lol
  • 11 July 2011 - 11:18 PM
    Jamesc

    The topic was just an analogy...trying to "research" into men's psychology nowadays..
    I don't have a nice car so nobody will care..forget about the posting n pm sleep.gif

    Men's psychology nowadays and in the past is all the same.

    It hasn't changed at all! Men think about sex every 6 or 7 seconds.

    I was kidding about the car. Even if you drive a wreck but you have

    a great body then expect a lot of posts and pm. biggrin.gif
  • 11 July 2011 - 11:22 PM
    Raymondism

    You just met a gal whom you like at a friend's birthday..Communications went well, later to find that she is high flyer, most probably earning more than you, drives a better car etc etc..Would you still wanna date her out? If not, why? rolleyes.gif


    yes
    first everything seemed ok
    second i wld love to be a househusband
    third date only mah not necessary will marry
  • 11 July 2011 - 11:30 PM
    Heavenspirit
    ME
    1) I feel that she doesn't take my words seriously sometimes... because she is higher flying and earning better than me (at that time)
    2) Yet being like most woman, she is very contradicting, she expects me to pay for all our dates... have expectations during birthdays, anniversarys, etc
    3) I always feel compared... she loves to compare me against her other suitor (who is 4 years her senior)... I mean... hello !!!!!

    SHE
    1) She feels very insecured.. to the extend that she checks my phone, deleted all my ex gf(s)'s contact etc etc...
    2) Keeps wanting commitment from me (what I wanted then, was a companion)
    3) When my career started to take off one year after we were together, she felt even more insecured (even bitter at times) that I began to have the ability to lead in our conversations


    Why so similar to my wife..but wife not graduate nor rich leh..

    Edited by Heavenspirit, 11 July 2011 - 11:33 PM.

  • 12 July 2011 - 10:17 AM
    Icebrush79

    ME
    1) I feel that she doesn't take my words seriously sometimes... because she is higher flying and earning better than me (at that time)
    2) Yet being like most woman, she is very contradicting, she expects me to pay for all our dates... have expectations during birthdays, anniversarys, etc
    3) I always feel compared... she loves to compare me against her other suitor (who is 4 years her senior)... I mean... hello !!!!!

    SHE
    1) She feels very insecured.. to the extend that she checks my phone, deleted all my ex gf(s)'s contact etc etc...
    2) Keeps wanting commitment from me (what I wanted then, was a companion)
    3) When my career started to take off one year after we were together, she felt even more insecured (even bitter at times) that I began to have the ability to lead in our conversations


    Why so similar to my wife..but wife not graduate nor rich leh..


    Wow you must have lots of patience then laugh.gif

    At times back then, I really feel like banging my head against the wall when I talk to her.... She's kinda double standards....
    She wine and dine with all the aesthetic surgeon and exchange friendly cheek to cheek kisses = OK
    I take a photo with my AUNTIE looking colleague (with my hand around her shoulder out of courtesy) = she cry foul and accuse me of flirting.... What the!!

    take care bro....

  • 12 July 2011 - 10:18 AM
    Sabbie

    ME
    1) I feel that she doesn't take my words seriously sometimes... because she is higher flying and earning better than me (at that time)
    2) Yet being like most woman, she is very contradicting, she expects me to pay for all our dates... have expectations during birthdays, anniversarys, etc
    3) I always feel compared... she loves to compare me against her other suitor (who is 4 years her senior)... I mean... hello !!!!!

    SHE
    1) She feels very insecured.. to the extend that she checks my phone, deleted all my ex gf(s)'s contact etc etc...
    2) Keeps wanting commitment from me (what I wanted then, was a companion)
    3) When my career started to take off one year after we were together, she felt even more insecured (even bitter at times) that I began to have the ability to lead in our conversations


    Why so similar to my wife..but wife not graduate nor rich leh..


    SG girl mentality, think they are great but actually insecure inside, I suggest find a wife from vietnam better. blink.gif
  • 12 July 2011 - 10:31 AM
    Icebrush79

    SG girl mentality, think they are great but actually insecure inside, I suggest find a wife from vietnam better. blink.gif


    Not good.... I never believe in having a life partner who will drag you down in life....

    Viet gals are for guys who don't mind being the sole (or main) breadwinner....

    Imagine, if both partnets are equally as strong in terms of their earning potential, there's so much more a family can achieve together....

    Maybe i'm brought up in a family where both parents are almost on par and thus I won't wanna have a wife who depends on me financially...

  • 12 July 2011 - 10:41 AM
    Sabbie

    Not good.... I never believe in having a life partner who will drag you down in life....

    Viet gals are for guys who don't mind being the sole (or main) breadwinner....

    Imagine, if both partnets are equally as strong in terms of their earning potential, there's so much more a family can achieve together....

    Maybe i'm brought up in a family where both parents are almost on par and thus I won't wanna have a wife who depends on me financially...


    Last time my parents tell me to find a wife that is also a graduate so that we will be similar in our education and earning power, I guess they are wise to say that, however do not know why along the way I find that sg girls have demanding expectations I that just feel so sick of, for example, but be at their back and call to fetch them, must buy them branded bags for birthdays, christmas, anniversaries, etc etc, must stay in condo because hdb is too low class for them etc etc, must be 100% faithful to them, cannot steal eat outside(ok this is a fair request)....sometimes I just think, get a simple wife, cook for me when I reach home after work, give me a massage, have some good sex, be happy, take care of my kids and that is good enough.
  • 12 July 2011 - 10:47 AM
    Icebrush79

    Hello IceBrush! I totally agree with what you said about achieving certain standards in life together.

    Putting personal achievements aside, I feel good quality communications are so important between the both. It lays the ground for everything else. And good communications do not just mean those daily concern questions "Back home ready?" "Eaten already?" rolleyes.gif A lot of us have experienced nothing but all these questions, and yes daily.. Eh we do know how to get home and have our dinner! We create closeness of feelings by conversing, good conversations! Which eventually lead to mutual support and respect I think. But at the same time, no action and all talks can make people quite mad! smash.gif


    Yes... a life partner should be someone who shares the same goal with you, visions the same QOL as you do (quality of life), etc etc. In this modern society, women asks for equality and the demographic shift is slowly edging towards fair earning opportunities... Why then, should the guy bear all living, dating and financial expenses while the lady sits back and do nothing?

    Unless he so chooses to because that gives him the security in the knowing that the lady has no one else to turn to financially.

    Really, it depends on the mentality of the guy.. some are more MCP proned..and they feel totally comfortable that the wife is a homemaker, makes him feel complete when he returns from work, etc etc... While others like me have no qualms of dating gals who are better off finacially or have higher earning capabilities. That's even better, together, we can achieve even more !! That said, if her attitude stinks, then no thanks... the door is always an arm's length away so pls walk...

    Yes and you're right... communication is the key to a relationship's longevity. I always believe in the 3 quantum of a relationship.

    1) Attraction (admit it guys, we're all visual.. if there's no initial attraction, then there's no chase to begin with... )
    2) Intimacy (what I mean here is not only the physical part, but mental intimacy as well... communication... connectivity, ability to relate to each other, etc)
    3) Commitment (trust, confidence in each other, and similar goals)

    Makes sense right...

    And finally again, I hate NATO practitioners as much as you do... Action always speaks louder than works...
  • 12 July 2011 - 10:52 AM
    Icebrush79

    Last time my parents tell me to find a wife that is also a graduate so that we will be similar in our education and earning power, I guess they are wise to say that, however do not know why along the way I find that sg girls have demanding expectations I that just feel so sick of, for example, but be at their back and call to fetch them, must buy them branded bags for birthdays, christmas, anniversaries, etc etc, must stay in condo because hdb is too low class for them etc etc, must be 100% faithful to them, cannot steal eat outside(ok this is a fair request)....sometimes I just think, get a simple wife, cook for me when I reach home after work, give me a massage, have some good sex, be happy, take care of my kids and that is good enough.


    Different folks different strokes pal... whatever makes you happy is the key... I don't deny, SG gals are very demanding. That's because they have high expectations. Material things are aplenty in our society...

    But to all fairness, they are not as bad as many think they are... Inside this corporate warrior facade, they are human afterall and especially being female, they have emotions... I have dated my fair share of high flying women who are both engaging and compromising.

    The rule of the thumb, earn their respect and they will show you respect in kind.... biggrin.gif
  • 12 July 2011 - 11:20 AM
    Happily1986
    very good guys. in depth discussion and advice. however you have yet to mention about the dealbreaker, his or her family!

    weird cos if his or her family is extremely nice and warm to you, it wont exactly make you decide without a question to marry your companion. now on the other hand if the family is nasty or comes with a Boeing capacity of legacy baggage, it might just be enough to drive you away!

    i have had the good misfortune to date 4 girls including my current and they all had perplexing and complex family backgrounds. and there were occasions we had fights because of the family. oh well.

    Edited by Happily1986, 12 July 2011 - 11:22 AM.

  • 12 July 2011 - 11:31 AM
    Icebrush79

    very good guys. in depth discussion and advice. however you have yet to mention about the dealbreaker, his or her family!

    weird cos if his or her family is extremely nice and warm to you, it wont exactly make you decide without a question to marry your companion. now on the other hand if the family is nasty or comes with a Boeing capacity of legacy baggage, it might just be enough to drive you away!

    i have had the good misfortune to date 4 girls including my current and they all had perplexing and complex family backgrounds. and there were occasions we had fights because of the family. oh well.


    I totally agree with the family part. Maybe i'm just being a practical person... imagine a family with huge financial baggage (ie dad is a gambler, a village of siblings to be responsoble towards, etc)... I wouldn't wanna fall in love with such a girl.... End up the couple work so hard to pay off the parent's debt.... sorry, I may sound extremely pragmatic, but love alone cannot ensure a long lasting relationship...

    Complex background also affects how the partner's thinkings and emotions. Eg a gal from a family with divorced parents often feels distrust in relationships..etc
  • 12 July 2011 - 11:53 AM
    Jamesc

    very good guys. in depth discussion and advice. however you have yet to mention about the dealbreaker, his or her family!

    weird cos if his or her family is extremely nice and warm to you, it wont exactly make you decide without a question to marry your companion. now on the other hand if the family is nasty or comes with a Boeing capacity of legacy baggage, it might just be enough to drive you away!

    i have had the good misfortune to date 4 girls including my current and they all had perplexing and complex family backgrounds. and there were occasions we had fights because of the family. oh well.

    Good point! U dun marry d gal u marry d family.

    Thats why if iike the mother then i go after d gal.

    Dun make the mistake of looking at d gal first.

    Waste yr time.
  • 12 July 2011 - 03:01 PM
    Passion
    I think to date a richer girl is ok. So long the feeling is mutual. Like one bro mention, will you date someone rich but average looking or good looking but poor. I would choose the latter. I don't need a rich char bo come and show me attitude but the look fk up. Man need someone whom they can bring out to show, bring back and fk. If without the look, how to bring out to show and bring back to fk?
  • 12 July 2011 - 11:22 PM
    Heavenspirit
    women got 2 mouths, men will never win..
  • 12 July 2011 - 11:53 PM
    Jillietta

    SG girl mentality, think they are great but actually insecure inside, I suggest find a wife from vietnam better. blink.gif


    We don't just "think" we are great..We are really better off compared to some men..
    But what causes the insecurity? Many attributing factors.
    We do know how to step aside and let partners enjoy their well deserved pride and ego..

  • 13 July 2011 - 11:38 AM
    Sabbie

    We don't just "think" we are great..We are really better off compared to some men..
    But what causes the insecurity? Many attributing factors.
    We do know how to step aside and let partners enjoy their well deserved pride and ego..


    It's not really the SG gals fault also, as the equality in education and job opportunities grow nearer, there are many successful women in Singapore. It is natural for successful women to have more demands in terms of their choice of partners and way of life, many men feel intimated if the women is more successful than them as we are an asian society where men are expected to be the breadwinner.

    So in summary, I think men should buck up and women should moderate their expectations
  • 13 July 2011 - 02:57 PM
    Davidtch

    We don't just "think" we are great..We are really better off compared to some men..
    But what causes the insecurity? Many attributing factors.
    We do know how to step aside and let partners enjoy their well deserved pride and ego..

    That's why u gals need to go to TW & learn ur Taiwanese MM.
  • 18 July 2011 - 03:07 PM
    Mightymito
    smile.gif who's the pretty one in your avatar?
  • 18 July 2011 - 03:09 PM
    Freestylers09
    hmm..can do the opposite..why u dun try date the guy instead? laugh.gif
  • 18 July 2011 - 03:15 PM
    Picnic06-Biante15

    hmm..can do the opposite..why u dun try date the guy instead? laugh.gif


    she got so many at this forum to choose from ...... grin.gif

    Top 4 positions wil goes to Tianmo, MO, Radx & J22 ............. tongue.gif
  • 18 July 2011 - 03:21 PM
    Sabbie

    We don't just "think" we are great..We are really better off compared to some men..
    But what causes the insecurity? Many attributing factors.
    We do know how to step aside and let partners enjoy their well deserved pride and ego..


    Seriously if I drive a Picanto and the girl drives a 350Z, I would feel a little insecure
  • 18 July 2011 - 03:24 PM
    Picnic06-Biante15

    Seriously if I drive a Picanto and the girl drives a 350Z, I would feel a little insecure


    Insecure of what ??????

    When in bed, you be the commander ... sly.gif tongue.gif
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